we increase our expectations and then fullfill them. what matters is the difference between these two...expectation and fullfilment. and this is indepedent of the its location in our time axis. few days back i was discussing with one of my friend about progress. do we really progress?? is the progress not the cocept which is tied with the society only. has progress anything to do with indivisual?? we are not governed by what we are. the direction is already chosen. no option ??.... no resentment!!!! when i see you and when i see a stone. what i use to differentiate between you and the stone is my knowledge (or being bias toward one) which i have borrowed from society (we can't scape from this.. do we? we are hardwired.... )!!!! so what you are ?? a bunch of thoughts which i have reserved for you... bunch of thoughts which come in my mind when i see you. nothing more than that. thoughts and progress??? rediculous...